> For the complete documentation index, see [llms.txt](https://wiki.meharmp.in/llms.txt). Markdown versions of documentation pages are available by appending `.md` to page URLs; this page is available as [Markdown](https://wiki.meharmp.in/people/controlling-partners-or.md). # Controlling Partners | കലിപ്പൻ 💕 കാന്താരി People who are insecure makes controlling behaviour. They fear that if their romantic partners are in free space, they may meet new interesting people and might leave them. That's the reason boyfriends didn't allow girlfriends to go for campus tours and trips with friends. The same go for GFs questions about all of her BFs female friends. **Where do these Kalippans coming from** Kalippans or angry men are by-products of patriarchy, who don't have an option to open up their mind or have a shoulder to cry on. They are asked not to show vulnerability or any emotions because men needed to be men. And men are powerful and control. **What we can do** 1\. Get out, you need an equal playground to have a conversation and make people understand that it's not going to work in a master-slave model. 2\. Understand, end of the day what everyone seeks for peace, a place where nobody judges. If you can, be that understanding, never judging a person to them. I feel so pity for all these angry controlling people as all I can see is a soul crying for care and love inside them. --- # Agent Instructions This documentation is published with GitBook. GitBook is the documentation platform designed so that both humans and AI agents can read, navigate, and reason over technical content effectively. Learn more at gitbook.com. ## Querying This Documentation If you need additional information that is not directly available in this page, you can query the documentation dynamically by asking a question. Perform an HTTP GET request on the current page URL with the `ask` query parameter, and the optional `goal` query parameter: ``` GET https://wiki.meharmp.in/people/controlling-partners-or.md?ask=&goal= ``` `ask` is the immediate question: it should be specific, self-contained, and written in natural language. `goal` is optional and describes the broader end goal you are ultimately trying to accomplish on behalf of the user. GitBook uses it to tailor the answer towards what is most useful for that goal. The response will contain a direct answer to the question and relevant excerpts and sources from the documentation. Use this mechanism when the answer is not explicitly present in the current page, you need clarification or additional context, or you want to retrieve related documentation sections.